Lori Anthony was born in Niagara Falls, New York, on February 11, 1970, and throughout her life, she exemplified compassion, courage, and quiet strength. Her journey began amidst the vibrant communities of Niagara Falls and Lewiston, places that nurtured her open heart and fostered a deep understanding of humanity. Later, her path took her to Los Angeles, where she further shaped her compassionate spirit and developed her unwavering dedication to caring for others.
From a young age, Lori felt a sacred calling to heal and serve. She answered this call by pursuing nursing at Santa Monica College, where she graduated with a deep sense of purpose. Her career spanned over 30 years, during which she specialized as an infectious disease nurse at a critical time when HIV was misunderstood and stigmatized. Lori stepped forward without hesitation, embracing the challenge with love and resilience. While many were afraid or hesitant to engage, she chose love and presence, offering solace and dignity to her patients. Her approach went beyond medical treatment; she saw each person as a soul deserving of respect, safety, and compassion. Her unwavering tenderness and dedication transformed countless lives and provided hope where it was most needed.
In addition to her clinical work, Lori was also a passionate nurse educator. She generously shared her knowledge, experience, and profound empathy with fellow nurses and healthcare professionals. Her influence extended far beyond her immediate patients, inspiring her colleagues and students to embody the same spirit of kindness and excellence. Her commitment to excellence and person-centered care earned her numerous accolades, including the prestigious Distinguished Nursing Excellence Award at Erie County Medical Center in 2011. Alongside her best friend, Mary Goodspeed, Lori was recognized for her clinical mastery, her compassionate approach to healing, and her ability to inspire others through her example.
Lori’s gentle approach extended into her personal life as well. She was known for her adventurous spirit, her great sense of humor, and her creative zest—especially evident in her involvement with her children’s education and endeavors. She was an incredible mother and wife, centered in a family rooted in love and respect. Lori’s children, Jack and Jordan, were inspired by her strength and kindness, and her influence inspired both of them to pursue advanced degrees in law and nursing. Her love for her family and friends created countless cherished memories, and her presence was a source of comfort and joy to all who knew her.
Lori is survived by her beloved children, Jordan (Mohammed Imam) Anthony and Jack (Jay Browning) Anthony; her wife, Christina Mihalitsas; her sister and brother-in-law, Barbara and Norman Barry; her nephews, Stephen (Danielle) DePalma and Edward Barry; her great-nephews and nieces, Stephen and Pamina DePalma; her in-law parents, Kosmos and Michele Mihalitsas; her in-law siblings, Amanda (Christopher) Nelson and her niece, Sawyer Nelson; and her former husband, John Anthony. She is also lovingly remembered by many cousins and dear friends whose lives were enriched by her presence. Lori was predeceased by her parents, Fran and John Berds, whom she joins now in eternal peace.
Lori’s legacy is a testament to her kindness and love—her ability to make everyone feel safe, valued, and cared for. Her life was dedicated to service, love, and mercy, reminding us all what it truly means to be human. Her light continues to shine, her love endures, and her spirit remains forever woven into the hearts of those she touched. She will be dearly missed but eternally celebrated.
Visitation will be held on Friday, December 19, from 3 to 7 PM at M.J. Colucci & Son Niagara Funeral Chapel, 2730 Military Road, Niagara Falls, NY 14304, followed by a service at 7:00 PM.
